Deckers

The Decker family, 1997; Melvin, Lois, Cece, and Robert

My girlfriend Cece's only sibling, Robert (57), passed away Feb. 11. He had struggled for years with diabetes. He was very tall, probably 6-5, but very gentle, kind, careful, and humorous. We all grew up together in the same neighborhood in Fresno, Ca., played games, went swimming, sking, and camping often. He left behind his wife, Cheryl, and her children and grandchildren. Cece and her mom, Lois, still live together, and will scatter Robert's ashes off the coast of Pismo Beach April 2, like his father 3 years ago.

Robert, Cece and my dad in 1992.

Our family made a few visits to Cece and family through the years. One time, Robert took each of my kids up in his elevated platform that he used to do lighting for various parties and projects. Rosie having a turn (1986). Robert loved children and was very gentle and responsible with them. And they loved him.

A favorite camping spot and swimming hole in 1971. (Summerdale)